Traditional weddings have traditional features, like white linen, formal dress, and church ceremonies. Traditional weddings also include a procession, a multitiered wedding cake, and a classic venue. Non-traditional weddings may have none of these things.
There’s no legal difference between a traditional and non-traditional wedding. Both can provide warm memories, both can be formal or informal, and both may be elaborate. So many of the rules that apply to planning a traditional wedding apply to planning a non-traditional wedding as well.
Here are some tips that might help you when planning your non-traditional ceremony.
Tip #1 – Remember Your Spouse
Planning a non-traditional wedding can be very stressful, just like planning a traditional wedding. Half the wedding couple may express a desire to leave all the planning to the other half. If this is a good idea or not depends on the couple. A plan made by half a couple is in danger of overlooking the style and taste of the other half. It might contribute to stress on the day of the event, if not before and ever after. So even if your partner claims they don’t want to be involved in planning your non-traditional wedding, it might be a good idea to consult with them now and then. You might learn something new about your future spouse.
Tip #2 – Remember Your Budget
Overspending on a wedding is a classic error some couples later regret and one you can avoid with some planning. Style first with budget in mind can mean a lot of things.
Many non-traditional weddings avoid traditional venues. This might give you greater freedom to express your style. Weddings can take place anywhere, including forests or fields, even in a cave or at a circus. Some of these locations may be more budget-friendly than others, so keep that in mind when you plan your non-traditional wedding, you may want to keep the budget in mind.
Some couples choose outdoor weddings to avoid hall and church rental fees. Non-traditional outdoor weddings tend to be informal, but there are many exceptions. Managing a formal wedding in an outdoor location is possible, but planning such an event can be complex. If this is your thing, go for it!
One way to guard the budget is to avoid extremes. This is especially important in regard to venue and food. Your guest list may impose further limitations.
Tip #3 – Remember Your Guests
You want your guests to be comfortable. They’re a big part of the celebration. So an important part of planning a non-traditional wedding is the guest list. Make it early and consider it carefully.
Some guests may have mobility or health issues. Will grandparents, for example, be able to walk across a rocky field? A wedding on a cruise ship or charter is fun if you don’t suffer motion sickness.
Think about where guests might need to park. Know in advance where caterers and others can set up and store equipment if they are to be included in your non-traditional event. Sometimes they’ll need a way to and from the event from the parking area.
Some guests might be driving in unfamiliar areas. Offer maps, and make locations easy to identify.
Do you want children at the service? If not, put that in the invitation. It can be wonderful having children of friends and relatives at your wedding if you plan ahead. The same thing might apply to pets, depending on your event. Factor these things in early when planning your non-traditional wedding.
If your venue or style severely limits who can attend, you might consider a second ceremony. It could be held shortly after the first ceremony or any other time, and be accessible to everyone. Guests who missed the first event for whatever reason will appreciate a chance to share the day.
Tip #4 – Remember The Environment
Any outdoor venue or open area might get rain or high wind on your special day. Make sure to account for bad weather when planning a non-traditional wedding.
Indoor locations may have their own “weather” too. Check for unexpected festivals or concerts in the area, sporting events, and seasonal activities that might disrupt your plans. Knowing a little about nearby businesses might help you avoid complications.
If you’re outdoors, remember there may be animals in attendance. Make sure you have a plan in case any of them decide to join you.
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Tip #5 – Remember Your Friends
IIf things seem to be getting out of hand or there’s just too much to do, remember family and friends. Maybe you can delegate some responsibility. Or maybe you just want someone to confide in, be angry with, or brainstorm a solution.
You’re going to run into a lot of variables when planning a non-traditional wedding. Knowing what skills or talents your family and friends have could save the day. Some of them may have access to caterers and DJs, or even a venue that’s available at the last minute. They may have access to land for outdoor events. Crafty friends and those with a knowledge of printing or graphic arts might help with invitations, decorations, and programs. The same goes for food and beverages. Your wedding might provide just the opportunity someone is looking for to show off musical talents or culinary skills.
Most guests feel appreciated when handed responsibility. Those with smartphones may be delighted to contribute to your photo collection. Let guests know you’d like to collect their digital photographs in a common place and make sure they know the hashtag. You’ll get plenty of impromptu shots and unique poses.
Good memories come in all shapes and sizes. If you keep these tips in mind while planning your non-traditional wedding day, there will be a good chance of it being a success for everyone.
Author Bio:
Tess DiNapoli is an artist, freelance writer, and content strategist. She has a passion for yoga and often writes about health and wellness, but also enjoys covering the fashion industry and world of fitness.
