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Needless to say, planning a bachelorette party should be a blast, not a low-key financial nightmare where bridesmaids are secretly calculating how much debt they’re racking up just to be there. If you go on Reddit, Facebook groups, and even TikTok, you’re going to see that this is a problem— expecting bridesmaids (who may already be financially struggling) to keep up with lavish spending. When it comes to bachelorette party planning, it’s one thing to get them to pay for a dress they’ll only wear once, but beyond that, is it necessary?
The bride deserves a celebration, but no guest (yes, your bridesmaids ARE guests) should have to choose between attending and being able to afford groceries next week. Overall, being mindful of costs doesn’t mean the fun disappears. It just means being thoughtful enough to make sure nobody is panic-texting their bank to approve a charge mid-toast. A great bachelorette party is one where everyone is actually enjoying themselves, and not just pretending while wondering if their credit card is about to decline.
Bachelorette Party Planning: 5 Things to Keep in Mind for an Affordable Celebration
1. Understand that Not Everyone Has the Same Budget
Just because one bridesmaid can drop money on a designer outfit, a full spa day, and an expensive pre-party brunch doesn’t mean everyone else can. Some bridesmaids might be financially comfortable, while others are mentally calculating how many instant noodles they’ll be eating next week to make it all work. And nobody should have to explain their financial situation just to be part of the fun.
A celebration that’s fun for everyone means finding that sweet spot where the night feels special but nobody is dreading their next credit card statement. It’s a reality, but it shouldn’t be. Actually, when planning a bachelorette party, just checking in with the group before making big decisions can make all the difference, because an event that feels like a privilege to attend is always better than one that feels like a financial burden.
2. Yes, Location Matters More Than You Think
Now, a bachelorette party weekend in a far-off city or a luxury resort might sound amazing in theory, but once flights, hotels, and constant spending add up, things can spiral fast. Sure, who wouldn’t want to have that weekend getaway with the girls, right? Well, a good location is one that works for most of the group, not just the ones who can afford to splurge.
But for brides who want something special but don’t want guests to feel like they need to take out a personal loan, a bachelorette party cruise is a great option. Now, this isn’t a cruise ship, but it’s a nice relaxing cruise for a few hours, and it’s super relaxing. Instead of constantly pulling out wallets, guests get to actually relax and enjoy the experience.
And honestly, sipping drinks with an ocean view beats fighting for an overpriced Uber in a crowded city.
3. Being Considerate About Outfits and Extras
Matching outfits? Sure, that’s cute. But forcing everyone to drop cash on coordinated looks for every activity? Well, that’s less cute. Bridesmaids shouldn’t have to spend a small fortune just to fit the aesthetic of the night. Plus, it’s mostly just for one photo, right?
Why should the girls pay for something that might not even like? That they might not even want to wear it again? At the end of the day, it’s not about who has the cutest themed pajamas, it’s about who laughed the hardest and made the best memories.
4. Don’t Forget the True Meaning of Thoughtful Activities
A bachelorette party doesn’t need a celebrity-level itinerary to be unforgettable. Actually, fancy dinners, VIP tables, and five-star spa days are fun, but they aren’t the only way to make the night feel special. And for bridesmaids on a tighter budget, they can also feel more like a financial trap than a celebration.
Generally speaking, some of the most memorable moments come from low-key but thoughtful activities. Like a cozy backyard movie night with a nostalgic rom-com, a scenic picnic with everyone’s favorite snacks, or even a wine tasting that’s just bougie enough to feel special but still casual enough for everyone to enjoy. These kinds of experiences keep the focus on the people, not the price tag.
5. Always Be Upfront About Costs
In all seriousness, nothing kills the vibe faster than an unexpected expense. If there’s a cost involved, especially if it’s a bigger one, then they should know about it ahead of time. No one wants to be blindsided by a last-minute Venmo request for a dinner they didn’t even enjoy or a spa package they weren’t planning to get.
What’s the most fun yet budget-friendly bachelorette party activity you’ve seen or done? Let’s swap ideas!
* This is a contributed post
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Hearts, Joy, Love!Jean
Author of “Wedding Invitations, RSVPs, and More! Oh My!” and “From ‘I Will’ to ‘I Do’”
