Q. – We’re not allowed to throw rice or birdseed after our ceremony, and I really don’t want to do bubbles. What alternatives to tossing rice do we have?
A. – Tossing rice originated with the ancient Hindus and Chinese to bestow fertility upon the bride and groom. Although highly traditional, this practice has lost its popularity and is rarely done anymore. From a bride’s standpoint, she doesn’t want something thrown at her (and rice or birdseed can sting if thrown directly at someone), and from the venue’s standpoint, it makes a big mess.
Other alternatives to tossing rice include tossing:
1) bubbles
2) feathers
3) rose petals
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5) dried lavender
They’re fun and make for a great photo op. However, since they are tossed and therefore land, always check with your ceremony site well before your wedding day to see if they’re permitted.
While blowing bubbles is a popular alternative — it’s painless and unless someone spills a whole bottle it doesn’t leave a big mess to clean up afterward — it isn’t the only other alternative.
Now, if you’re looking for something that doesn’t have to be thrown at all, how about:
6) sparklers
7) blowing kazoos or recorders
8) ringing bells
They’re festive, unexpected, and leave no mess afterwards.
Another alternative to tossing rice that is gaining popularity is having a live butterfly or dove release. It’s so romantic — truly a beautiful sight, not harmful to the creatures themselves, and aren’t messy (really!)
Photo Credit: Pxfuel
What alternatives to tossing rice have you seen at a wedding? Let me know in the comments below.
Hearts, Joy, Love!
Jean
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