The Bouquet Toss – How To Catch The Bouquet

Bouquet Toss - Tossing The Bouquet - Wedding Customs
The bouquet toss, you know that fun custom during the wedding reception when the bride throws a bouquet to all the single ladies, didn’t start out so jovial and fun.

The practice of the bride tossing her bouquet originated in 14th century Europe. At that time, the belief was that all brides and everything they touched was lucky. By merely touching a bride, or getting a piece of something she touched, wore, or carried would give a person a little bit of that luck.

A very unromantic concept – as the bride was often aggressively chased, guests tearing at her dress and bouquet in the hopes of obtaining some of her luck. Eventually brides began throwing bits of their bouquets to the crazy crowd.

This new practice of tearing apart her own bouquet to throw to several people eventually transformed to the bouquet toss practice we know today. Bride’s used to toss their own bouquet, but this eventually turned into a small toss bouquet, allowing the bride to keep hers. Instead of getting some of the bride’s luck, whoever catches it will be the next to marry.

Tossing the bouquet is the easy part. Just be wary of low ceilings or the bouquet will be bounced directly down to the floor instead of reaching the intended target – the single ladies.

Catching it takes some finesse.

Check out this entertaining infographic from our friends at Larson Jewelers which gives the single ladies an easy (and amusing) how-to and tips to increase their odds of a successful bouquet catch.


The Ultimate Guide to Catching the Bouquet Like a Lady - LarsonJewelers.com - Infographic

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Old, New, Borrowed and Blue – Origins and Meanings of This Familiar Rhyme

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“Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue”

Something Old, New, Borrowed, Blue – We all know that singsong rhyme but may not know where it came from or what it means. Most brides just buy a blue garter and hope that covers it.

But the traditions surrounding it are quite charming.

The something old is usually covered by the bride choosing a piece of jewelry or other accessory to represent the chain of happiness flowing from one generation to another. When a bride uses her mother’s wedding gown or other family heirloom she is recognizing that this item symbolizes the ties between generations of family.

The something new is the marriage itself. It is symbolized by wearing something new (a new wedding gown or new earrings for example) that helps bring good fortune and success to this new union.

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The something borrowed is usually on loan from a married friend or family member to help bring happiness to the new bride. The something borrowed item can be a piece of wedding attire (like a veil), jewelry, or even a handkerchief or family bible.

The something blue belongs to a tradition which dates back to biblical times when blue stood for purity and fidelity.

The English addition of the phrase “and a sixpence in your shoe,” is a favorite. If a bride places a coin in her left shoe, it is said to ensure wealth and that she will always have money.

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Why We Do That – Origins of Popular Wedding Ceremony Traditions

A wedding ceremony is a wonderful event – a rite-of-passage full of ritual and symbolism.

Have you ever wondered where these rituals and practices come from and why we do these things? Here are the origins of some common wedding ceremony traditions.

The White Wedding Gown
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We can thank Queen Victoria for the tradition of wearing a white wedding gown. She was the first to wear a white satin and lace dress for her wedding to Prince Albert in 1840.

Colored gowns were common at the time as white fabric was considered impractical (hard to come by, and hard to keep clean). Many brides wore their “Sunday Best.”

Enter Queen Victoria. She had some beautiful lace that she wanted incorporated into her wedding gown. The final product was made of white satin. Although she wasn’t the first royal bride to wear a white gown, it was her choice of attire that caught on and inspired brides to be married in white.

Today, while most brides still opt for the white gown, it’s not unusual to see non-white wedding gowns. Vera Wang’s fall 2014 bridal collection featured various shades of pink, including rose, coral and peony; and she also created bridal collections of red and black.

Bridesmaids Dressing Alike

bridesmaids dressing alike

Centuries ago, all of the women, including the bride, dressed alike, not just the bridesmaids. This was to confuse the evil spirits who lurked around. The evil spirits intended to cause harm and ill will to the bride. Since everyone was dressed the same, the evil spirits couldn’t tell who was the bride, and so were unable to cause any harm or mischief.

The Ceremony Processional

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wedding ceremony processional

wedding ceremony processional

The ceremony starts with the processional, the formal entering of the wedding party.

Many couples have only the bride’s attendants walk in during the ceremony processional (with the groom’s attendants coming out with the groom and officiant), however having the entire wedding party enter as couples is perfectly acceptable. It’s your preference.

The processional dates back hundreds of years ago when a wedding ceremony was preceded by dancing (celebrating the joy of life) to the ceremony locale. Through the years the dancing evolved into the modern processional.

With This Ring

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During the ceremony, couples exchange wedding rings.

The practice of exchanging wedding rings dates back thousands of years to the Romans, Egyptians, and Greeks.

The symbolism of the wedding ring originated with the Egyptians. A ring is round, with no beginning and no end. It represents eternity and the never-ending love of the couple.

In ancient Rome and Greece, wedding rings were used to represent a promise of fidelity.

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Sealed With A Kiss

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Who can forget the kiss when the couple are pronounced husband and wife? We can thank the Ancient Romans for this as they sealed contracts with a kiss. Also, it was believed that as a couple kiss, their breath intermingles, therefore giving each other a little bit of their souls.

Decorating The Getaway Car

decorating the getaway car

Tying shoes to the back of the getaway car dates back to ancient Assyrian, Hebrew and Egyptian cultures where exchanging shoes sealed an agreement or contract.

Tin cans were later used although it is unclear as to when this practice began). It was thought that the clanking sound would scare away any evil spirits.

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Queen Victoria – unknown

Bridesmaid walking down aisle, and
Bride and father walking down aisle
Jeff Schaefer Photography

Stargazer lily with rings, and
First kiss
Sandra Reed Photography

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Wedding party lined up for processional, and
Decorated vehicle
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G is for Garter Toss

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Few things are sillier, yet fun, than a groom removing a bit of lacy fabric from his new wife’s leg, then tossing it to the single men at their reception. Although not as common these days, the garter toss is still a popular wedding tradition.

This simple ritual has lost its popularity through the years, and many couples choose to omit this tradition as they feel it is distasteful and vulgar.

However, compared to its origins, having your groom dive under your gown to retrieve a garter is quite civilized.

Be glad that you weren’t a bride prior to the 14th century. It was no mere “slip the garter off her leg and then toss” back then.

It was of believed that everything the bride wore or touched was good luck. So wedding guests, wanting to get a piece of good luck for themselves, would try to remove the garter from her leg themselves, and even ripped off bits of her gown. Yes, they accosted and assaulted the bride!

Who would have thought that this simple, fun ritual has its origins in something more aggressive and violent?

Eventually, brides grew tired of fighting off people trying to tear at their clothing, began tossing items to the guests, which evolved into the garter toss that we see today.

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