No matter how involved he may have been in the wedding planning thus far, or how much of the planning has already been taken care of, there is always something for the groom to do and check on to ensure that the wedding day goes smoothly. And what better for him to do this than with a special To-Do List For The Groom.
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So, to help him out as the wedding date gets closer, here is a short groom’s wedding to-do list.
The To-Do List For The Groom
1. Vows
If you and your partner have decided to write your own vows (and have gotten your officiant’s OK to do your own vows), do not leave it to the night before! While you may be going for spontaneity, you’re just putting undue pressure on yourself (and may leave out something that you really want to say).
Instead, spend some time really thinking about what this marriage means to you, how much you love your bride, and things you plan to do to keep the love alive.
Just because you have it written down, it doesn’t mean that some practice is not in order. Read it out loud several times to be sure it “flows.” Make sure there is a legible copy in your tux pocket.
2. Rings
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Double check the rings. Are they in their ring boxes, ready to go? Who will have them on the wedding day? Make sure they are easily accessible so there is no fumbling at the altar.
Wedding Ring Tip: Keep the bride’s wedding band in the ring box, and have the best man put that in his pocket. A loose ring will be much harder to take out of a pocket at the appropriate time (and, if there is even the tiniest hole in the pocket, you don’t want the ring to slip through).
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3. Gift for your partner
Double check where the bride’s gift is if you are planning to give her one. When will you do it – at the rehearsal? On the morning of the wedding? If on the wedding day, will you be giving your bride her gift yourself, or will you have someone else bring it to her? If someone else, does that person know your plans for presentation?
4. Tuxedo/Formalwear
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Triple check your tuxedo/formalwear. Is it a good fit? If not, do you have time to have it fixed? What is the alternative? Do you have all the accessories – tie, cufflinks, vest or cummerbund, etc.? Will you return it yourself or will your best man or someone else return the rental for you?
Formalwear Tip: Be sure to try on everything at the formalwear shop before taking it with you. That way it won’t be left until the wedding day to realize if something has to be adjusted or replaced. Tell everyone else in the wedding party who is renting formalwear to do the same.
Try on everything (including all accessories) at the formalwear shop before you take it home with you. That way it won’t be left until the wedding day to realize if something has to be adjusted or replaced.
5. Items for Your Officiant
Do you have the check ready for the agreed upon fee for the minister/justice performing the ceremony? Do you have your marriage license handy?
Find out from your officiant if they would prefer that you bring the marriage license and their payment to the rehearsal or on the wedding day itself.
6. Honeymoon
Triple check the honeymoon details – flights, hotel/lodging, etc. Make any adjustments needed.
Will you and your partner need passports? Apply for them several months before your wedding date. According to the US Department of State website, “As of March 24, we are processing routine applications in 10-13 weeks.”
That way there’s no delay, or need to put a rush on it.
7. Sleep
Get some sleep the night before the event. You’re going to have a busy day and you’ll want to be well rested. You’ll feel better, look better, and will enjoy the day so much more.
Go easy on the alcohol the night before the wedding. You don’t want to be hung over on your wedding day. Also, be aware that some officiants will not perform the ceremony if one of the partner’s is intoxicated or hung over.
What do you think of this To-Do List for the Groom? Is there anything else you’d add? Let me know in the comments below!
Hearts, Joy, Love!
Jean
Author of “Wedding Invitations, RSVPs, and More! Oh My!” and “From ‘I Will’ to ‘I Do’”
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All of these are so important! Wonderful to-do list! Although sleep the night before is so hard 🤣
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